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Happy Valentines Day
By blogadmin | February 14, 2008
Valentines Day is a crazy day for any person (women especially), but for a fat girl it can be terrible. You see all these skinny malinkis walking down the street carrying huge stupidly expensive flowers and you think to yourself, if only I was thin, I would have been sent some. Then you get depressed that you don’t have to go home and get dressed up to be taken out for a romantic dinner, so you probably eat or drink too much at home by yourself while you plan how you are going to drop weight. Been there, done that.
Today I did different.
I made myself look so nice for work, and my daughter told me I was beautiful. First time she has ever said it and it was totally spontanious. Do you think I walked on a cloud all day after that? You bet ya! That was better than a rose anyday. I’m not knocking flowers, however that genuine display of love was far better than a flower bought because that’s what you do on Valentines Day.
The big change was today I did stuff for me, I went to the gym, I felt great in my outfit and I learnt a great lesson – you can make yourself feel just as special, if not more than someone else can.
In the end I did get a Valentines message, so I did get to share in some of the love conditioning of the world…..it gave me a huge smile and another boost of confidence……so I guess I won’t turn down any flowers if they come my way.
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