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Dating when overweight.

blogadmin — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 04:03:11 +0000

online casino???????mach-zehnderQuestions about it, dating when overweight and dating as a single parent are not the easiest things in the world to do…..but hey…..you gotta get out there. Well that’s my opinion anyway.

I didn’t want to get back into dating, after the last fiasco, because no matter what is said, you can’t help but think that your weight is the issue. Yet, I don’t want to try and find a partner on a website for men that like bigger woman such as BBW because I would like to find someone that likes me for me – not because of the size of my arse. Any ideas anyone?

Happy Valentines Day

blogadmin — Thu, 14 Feb 2008 09:53:26 +0000

Valentines Day is a crazy day for any person (women especially), but for a fat girl it can be terrible. You see all these skinny malinkis walking down the street carrying huge stupidly expensive flowers and you think to yourself, if only I was thin, I would have been sent some. Then you get depressed that you don’t have to go home and get dressed up to be taken out for a romantic dinner, so you probably eat or drink too much at home by yourself while you plan how you are going to drop weight. Been there, done that.
Today I did different.
I made myself look so nice for work, and my daughter told me I was beautiful. First time she has ever said it and it was totally spontanious. Do you think I walked on a cloud all day after that? You bet ya! That was better than a rose anyday. I’m not knocking flowers, however that genuine display of love was far better than a flower bought because that’s what you do on Valentines Day.
The big change was today I did stuff for me, I went to the gym, I felt great in my outfit and I learnt a great lesson – you can make yourself feel just as special, if not more than someone else can.
In the end I did get a Valentines message, so I did get to share in some of the love conditioning of the world…..it gave me a huge smile and another boost of confidence……so I guess I won’t turn down any flowers if they come my way.

Mika Big Girl

blogadmin — Sat, 09 Feb 2008 22:55:26 +0000

Have you seen this yet.
Love It!!!
Some great outfits. I’m sure I wore a corset like the blue one to a Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras – maybe 1996.

Big Fat Blog

blogadmin — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 02:21:57 +0000

While I’m trying to drop the weight as I truly believe it is part of my emotional baggage, many people around the world are accpeting of their weight. More points to them I say. I will be so upset if I can reach and maintain my goal weight only to find that I don’t gain any more self confidence. I know my weight is only one of the things I don’t like about myself but it is a biggy.

Check out this site Big Fat Blog. They have some interesting points. I mean the ‘globesity’ business is worth a LOT of money to companies – so how much stuff out there in media land is a beat up. I’ll be reading more and will add comments when I can.